No scratchy clothes! Kids are honest. If they are uncomfortable, it will show in the images. Remove tags from clothes. If cheap netting was used in the petticoat of a dress, have it replaced with soft tulle. Little boys hate ties. If possible, find an alternative way (a sweater vest or a Cuban style shirt) for them to be dressed up.

Bribery will get you—and your images—everything! Kids work well with rewards. Tell them exactly what you expect of them at the session and that if they follow the rules, you’ll reward them. Let them know that if they don’t follow the rules, they will not get the reward, even if their siblings earn it. Keep the reward simple: ice cream, a new book, etc. so you can reward them immediately after the portrait session.

On portrait day, keep as much of their usual routine as possible, especially for meals. Before the session, serve them a snack and a very hydrating drink leaving time for a potty break.

Make sure they get their nap. Even if you have been bribing them and they are excited for portraits, follow their routine and make sure they lay down for a few minutes.

Dress them last. It may be easier on you to dress them first and then get ready, but while you are fiddling with your hair and makeup, they are on their best “dressed up” behavior. Then, by the time they get to the session, they are ready to rip the uncomfortable clothes off and play, especially in a new environment and in the presence of someone new. Let them play and burn off some energy while you get dressed.

Bring emergency snacks and drinks that they like.

Bring a blanket that you think coordinates with their outfits.

For babies and toddlers, bring toys that make noise so we can use them to get their attention.

For older kids and adults, see our information about What TO Wear.